build: Add an option to control building tests

Commit 8569c99d ("Look for a Python installation with the tap module") correctly added a dependency on the gi Python module for tests. Commit 51ca0356 ("Make tracker:endpoint test work on macOS") restructured Python probing by moving it to the top-level meson.build.

These two commits have the side-effect of exposing the fact that the gi Python module is really only a test dependency, and should not be required if building without tests.

As such, add a -Dtests=bool option to disable building tests. This reduces the number of ninja targets from 232 to 188 on my non-test build.