Database contention and locking redux
Split FTS search table update at startup into a single RO and multiple RW transactions, and drop down email create/merge batch size, both to reduce DB load and lock contention, reducing the odds of getting a "database is locked" error.
To make it easier to spot and diagnose these issues, this also ensure all DB SQL methods are checking for long-running queries, log a warning if > 50% max allowed time, and further cleans up logging of SQL and results.
See #921 (closed) for context.
Edited by Michael Gratton