Fix and Improve Visual Studio builds

Hi,

This MR is opened to improve the status of the Visual Studio builds done with Meson, as well as fixing and enhancing builds with distutils:

For both build systems:

-Force-include msvc_recommended_pragmas.h (which is part of GLib on Windows builds), which covers the compile-time flags that we want to look out for on Visual Studio builds

-Update pygi-closure.c to avoid compiler errors (which is raised with C4047, which we are wary about) by just casting arg->v_pointer to ffi_arg (which is more-or-less like a void pointer).

For Meson:

-Manully look for Cairo and Cairo-GObject on Visual Studio builds, if their pkg-config files could not be found, because the Makefiles shipped with Cairo do not generate pkg-config files for us.

For distutils:

-Fix the build on Visual Studio, since the distutils compiler instance is different on Visual Studio (no compiler sub-attribute).

-Enable tests to build and run on Visual Studio builds as well.

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This is also likely needed for the Master branch.

With blessings, thank you!