wayland/surface: Send unmapped signal when the surface goes away
This was the intention anwyway but it didn't work properly because
GObject::dispose removes all signal handlers and we unmap surfaces in
WaylandShellSurface::finalize. Move all the unmanaging and unmapping to
the dispose vfunc where we can still run all the signal handlers.
Closes: https://gitlab.gnome.org/GNOME/mutter/-/issues/3501