style: Improve the styles for the separation in quick setting buttons
- remove the highlighting js in favour of color definitions, to fix it not really working in light theme or high contrast
- add a bunch of color definitions to set the color of the menu button in the different styles
- drop the border drawing for a separator, to fix visual issues with the high border radius, in favour of a separator element
- change the class names of some things to make it understandable
- bit of overall css tidying